Every moment counts. Live your own life now and every moment of the day. You will grow and so will we when we all live our own lives.
Your life is not on hold. This is not a rehearsal (said by my teenage daughter). It’s the real deal.
Remember what you value and start living according to those values. If you forgot who you are because you’re busy following others and living their lives more than you own, make a list of what you value and write down why you value each one on the list. Make that list, now and remind yourself every morning that you are you and not a duplicate of someone else. Live your life as your own.
People will respect you more when you value yourself. Don’t put others on a pedestal and ignore yourself. It’s not who you are.
Mel Robbins can change your life if you watch, listen, and just do it.